Mom Guilt is DEAD
Hey, y'all. It's Nikki. Welcome to another episode of the Working Mamas podcast. I am so excited about this episode today. I am on location today broadcasting live from the beautiful sunny, spring, almost summer streets of Atlanta.
Nikki:My daughter has dance practice today, and I am recording this episode from the car because she still has about an hour of practice left. So first, before I jump into laying on my own therapeutic couch, how are y'all doing? I hope y'all are doing well. I hope life has been treating you well, that you've been treating yourself well and that things are looking good for you. I hope that everybody's safe and healthy and happy and just enjoying this life.
Nikki:And between the dump truck, the tow truck, and the three or four motorcyclists who are doing donuts and popping wheelies in the middle of traffic, I hope that this noise cancellation is really on ten and it will drown out some of that so that y'all can not have to be bombarded with that background noise. So let me just tell y'all about how I got here. I planned on recording this episode this weekend, but my day has been turned around because my daughter had dance practice today, but her practice was two hours before I expected it to be. So they're coming up on their dance showcase and they're having some extra practices, extra time trying to get it right so it can look real good. They are super talented.
Nikki:But I had her dance time. I blocked out my calendar for two hours for her dance time when I should have blocked out four. So she was late to practice, but she's here nonetheless. And so I am really trying to make the best of this time that I'm sitting in the car. Speaking of which, I'm about to turn my car back on because again, I'm in Atlanta and it's 80 degrees right now, 78 to be exact.
Nikki:And I let the windows up to keep the noise out, but I turned the car off and now I'm hot and I'm about to be sweating. So I'm not trying to be uncomfortable doing this podcast episode. I'm not trying to be hot and sweaty. My sweat glands are already in full effect because I finished a workout right before I dropped her off at dance class. And I'm about to tell y'all how I got here, to be sitting in the car with my laptop and my jug of water and my green juice, my spinach, lemon, ginger, celery juice, waiting for my daughter to get out of class.
Nikki:So if this is your first time tuning in to the Working Mamas podcast, thank you for tuning in. Thank you for just rocking with me. This podcast is very, cathartic for me. It's like an audio journal for me, but also it gives me an opportunity to share experiences as a mama, as an entrepreneur, as a black CPA, we're less than 1% out here. And also as somebody who's worked in corporate for almost twenty years, I have a lot to say and share about what it's like being a black girl working in corporate America, especially in the accounting space.
Nikki:So the Working Mamas podcast has something for everybody, whether you are a new professional or a seasoned professional, trying to figure out how to elevate your career, build up your leadership skills, how to get that promotion, how to negotiate, then those episodes are available under the CareerCombos hashtag. That's what you'll see on most of the career episodes. Small business owners, creatives, entrepreneurs who are like, look, I don't have a CPA. I don't have an accountant. My budget won't let me right now, but I still need some best practices and some tips and support to get my business off the ground where it needs to be.
Nikki:So I talk a lot about forming an LLC, selecting the best business structure for you, accounting and tax tips that entrepreneurs need to know. And of course, talk about the CPA exam. I am a CPA exam instructor and coach. I turned my struggle with the CPA exam into a learning experience for other candidates to try to get over that hump. And lastly, just talking about being a mom and mom life and all that we constantly have going on, we're wearing all these hats, we're doing all of the things, whether it's work at home, school activities, cooking, laundry, all of it, plus trying to run a business and establish our own things.
Nikki:So the Working Mamas podcast is just that. It is a podcast that I, as a busy working mom started, and I wanted to share experiences, connect with my audience and give y'all some more flavor and context around the things that y'all DM me about, email me about, message me about on LinkedIn. So that's that. Thank you for tuning in. Make sure you come back and listen to more episodes.
Nikki:There are two seasons of episodes for you to listen to, get your issue and grab your drink and rock out with me. So one thing that I do, I always let y'all know what I'm drinking. So I have water and green juice today. I am doing, it's officially called an abs challenge. So AJ Johnson is doing an eight week abs challenge and she does a check-in every Wednesday about what we should be doing with our body, some of the changes we should be seeing, why we're probably not seeing any changes.
Nikki:And she shares with us our challenges for the next week, whether it's an hour of cardio, which is the challenge for this week again, an hour of cardio, keeping your heart rate between one hundred and twenty and one hundred and fifty BPMs, which was a struggle for me today because the way that I worked out, I never really paid attention to my heart rate. I just wanted to make sure it was up. And I know that some workouts, my heart rate is at 140. Some workouts is at 182. And for her to say, you need to keep your heart rate between the one hundred twenty and one hundred fifty so that you stay in that fat burning zone.
Nikki:And I had this misconception that the higher your heart rate is, the more effective the workout is and more fat that you'll burn. So I'm doing this eight week abs challenge with AJ and we all love her from house party and just being the amazing spiritual life coach, bringing us all the beautiful African vibes on Instagram. But I've learned a lot from her as far as the scientific side of nutrition and wellness and taking care of your body. Didn't know she was a chemistry major, which is amazing. But when she talks about the macros and how to take care of yourself and the different things that we do and eat that can trigger different reactions in our body.
Nikki:It's just been a great way for me to practice some discipline mentally and also physically, because I'm curious to see how my body is going to react to this challenge and staying within the micros, micros, within the macros that she set for us as far as fat intake, carbs, What's the other one? Protein and just offering some suggestions for things to eat. So I love that she is offering this on Instagram for free. She called it her love offering, which I love because it's information that so many of us need. And we end up in bad situations with our health, with our mental wellness, wondering why we can't get rid of a gut, why we might be coughing, why our back might hurt.
Nikki:And a lot of it is driven by what you put in your body. So I try to look at it from that perspective when I have those food temptations, which I do, but even when I, and I don't even say, you know, I cheated or I slipped up. If I have a craving for something, I have it. I give myself grace, but then I jump back on the wagon to make sure that I don't develop that as another habit. So like yesterday I had some beignets from Cracker Barrel.
Nikki:Oh my god, y'all. They got this butter pecan dipping sauce. It is so good. It was so good. They are not the Cafe Du Monde beignets, but they are up there.
Nikki:So I thoroughly enjoyed those last night, but when I got up this morning, at the top of my mind was making sure that I had a good day today, as far as treating my body well with nutrition, with working out, doing those other things. So let me tell y'all how I got turned around, because the title of this episode is Mom Guilt is Dead. Mom Guilt is Dead. We are done with it. Put it in the Put it six feet deep with work life balance and own fleek and turn And all these other phrases that we need to retire.
Nikki:So I have this morning ritual where I do, I have to do all of these things in sequence before I start my day. So in the morning, after I have gotten my eight hours of sleep, because that has been a priority for me too, after I wake up from my eight hours of sleep, the first thing I do is open my eyes and I look to the sky and I thank God. And I pray for my family, for my friends, I pray to have a good day. And I just pray for all of the good vibes, right? So after that, I lay in the bed, I stretch out a little bit, nothing too rigorous.
Nikki:I just stretch out my limbs and I take in some deep breaths for a couple of minutes and I can literally feel the air coming into my body and just permeating all the way down to my toes. So again, in the spirit of treating my body well, treating my mental well, that's what I do. After that, I get out the bed, I go straight to the windows, pull back the curtains and I open the blinds. And while I'm doing that, I'm drinking my water. I keep my jug, my big jug, my chug jug is what I call it.
Nikki:I keep my chug jug on the floor by my bed so I can get it as soon as I get out the bed in the morning. And while I'm drinking my water, curtains are coming back, blinds are opening. I love natural light. I need that when I get up. There's something about nature that I feel like our body responds to that energy.
Nikki:Even when it's cloudy or raining outside, I still open the windows and still, even if it's gloomy or cloudy, I love a good rainy, cloudy day, to be honest, so I don't complain about it. And I don't like lights. I don't like the lamps being turned on as soon as I get up, all these artificial light sources. I don't like it. And everybody in my house thinks I'm crazy, but that's just kind of how it is.
Nikki:So after that, windows are open, blinds are open, I still got my water and I'm on my phone at this point. I'm either on my phone or I'm grabbing a book that I've been reading. And I read the Wall Street Journal articles on my phone just to see what's going on in business, what's going on in the world. I love the food articles, the opinion, the weekend pieces, and I just like to be informed. I like to read.
Nikki:I like to read about things that are fun or exciting for me, like cooking or accounting or tech and all of those cool things. So I do that. And then by that time I'm about to get dressed. So I'm dry brushing, I'm jumping in the shower, I'm putting honey on my face, doing all these things, right? But today I didn't have to work, at least I didn't have to work at my day job.
Nikki:So since it's the weekend and I take that very seriously, when I am done with work, when the weekend comes, I am shut down from the day job because I put in more than enough time, energy and effort during the week that my weekends are for me and for my passions and my family and things that I wanna do. So this morning I did my usual, I got up, thank God, did my breathing and my stretching, opened the windows, drunk my water. And I said, before I start my day, let me focus on the things I really have to get done today. And what was the most important to me today was getting my workout in and getting my hour of cardio, like AJ recommended. And I usually don't like to work out in the morning because I'm a night owl.
Nikki:I go to bed two, three, 04:00 in the morning and it's just, it doesn't feel good to work out early in the morning. But I said, let me get creative and do something that I like to do to make my workout exciting. I love music. I listen to music when I'm cleaning up, when I'm in the shower, when I'm working, my music is turned up loud when I'm in the car going somewhere. So I decided to have a solo dance party.
Nikki:Turned on my playlist, I have a workout playlist, it's called Werk, W E R K. And all the good songs are on there. The whole lot of Rick Ross is on there. I realized that today that probably half of the songs on my workout playlist are Rick Ross. But I mean, Rose just gets it.
Nikki:You can ride to him with with the top down on a hot summer day. You can work out. You can be at the job listening to him. So half of my playlist is Rick Ross, but the Megan Thee Stallion, MC Hammer, who else is on my that playlist? Three six Mafia, BNGB, whole bunch of stuff.
Nikki:So I'm doing my workout, just dancing, just really just having a good time. And then I picked up my, my weights. I have some 10 pound weights and I started working out with them and it felt good. It felt really, really good. I burnt 500 calories in thirty five minutes, I think.
Nikki:But I was still looking at my Apple Watch, like, I mean, make sure my, my heart rate don't go up past 150. If it do, I'm a slow down, take a break, wait for it to come back down and get back to it. So after that, I said, let me get the dog. Let me take her outside for a little walk while my heart rate is still kinda up, get an extra fifteen minutes of a workout, you know, let her go outside and get some fresh air. And I came back in the house, and while I'm doing all this, you know, Honey Bun is in the backyard.
Nikki:He done sprayed down the backyard. He opened the umbrella, the patio, furniture umbrella. He's scrubbing the grill. He about to throw fools on the grill. I'm like, okay.
Nikki:So we about to have a good day, chill out outside, eat some ribs outside, drink some wine, all this good stuff. And I said, before all of that, I'm hot and sweaty. The dog is relaxed. My son is doing whatever he doing. My daughter doing whatever she doing.
Nikki:I'm a go relax, take me a bath before I have to take her to dance class. So I'm literally y'all literally walking in the bathroom about to turn on the water in the tub, put my salt, my extra salt and my essential oils in there. And I get a text from my daughter's dance instructor, who was also my friend. And she's like, hey, I just wanna make sure Niyara is gonna is close by. She's gonna be ready for class today.
Nikki:I need her here. So I was thinking that this was a proactive follow-up because she was late last weekend because me and my husband got mixed up on where we had to be, what time we had family in town. It was a lot going on. So she was late last weekend. So I'm thinking that's just a proactive follow-up.
Nikki:So I was about to reply like, Hey girl, yeah, she'll be there on time. We ready, blah, blah, blah. But first I had to go back to my email. I said, Let me make sure I haven't missed the email that she sent out. Cause she's very diligent at sending out emails, detailed instructions, highlighting action items, just very on point with that.
Nikki:And which is funny because her dance team is called On Point Dance Team. So I go back to my email and I'm like, oh shit, she's late to practice because the practice times had changed because they're getting ready for their spring show. So more practices than the normal weekly practices they have. She the the instructor threw in some extra dance, extra practice sessions. So when I put it on my calendar, I put it on my calendar, but it was still for the old time.
Nikki:And so I had planned on leaving at a certain time, but the class was looking halfway over. So I had to text her back like, oh my God, I lost track time. I thought we were starting at 03:30. My bad. We're on the way right now.
Nikki:And at first I felt a little scatterbrain like, oh my God, how did this happen? How did I miss this? You know, I I always open her emails and read them. I don't maybe I just scrolled through and didn't notice that the times had changed, but whatever it was. So then I'm going to my daughter because she's running bathwater too about to get in there and play with all her toys or make up a song or whatever she does in the bathroom.
Nikki:And I had to tell her like, hey, let the water out. We gotta go right now. Do you know that you're late for practice? And she was even like, I didn't know, I thought we had to be there at 03:30 and we were just all kind of confused. So she got ready, I gave her a fresh ponytail, we walked out the door.
Nikki:And I share all that because it is so typical. It never fails that this is the day in the life of being a mom. And there's always something that we have to do that we done forgot about, that we're late to, that we don't have time to do. And it can cause pandemonic, is that a word? Pandemonium type moments in our lives.
Nikki:And I remember having all these moments where I would feel bad that I missed something with the kids, I missed the practice, something was late at work, all these other things going on. I didn't get the million things done on my to do list that I had planned on getting done. And I would feel bad about that and I would beat myself up about that, but I really wanted to share this episode today, even though I'm on location and I'm not in my office recording this on my brand new podcast mic that I got, that has amazing quality, by the way, I had to put that out there to say every moment doesn't have to be rehearsed. Every moment doesn't have to be perfect. Every photo on Instagram is not gonna be perfectly filtered and photoshopped.
Nikki:So I am here to tell the moms, mom guilt is dead. Okay? We are burying mom guilt right the same plot as work life balance, as the mom who does it all, as a super mom, as all these other terms that really society has placed on us and we've adopted it as our own and adopted it as we have to meet these expectations that society has set. So mom guilt is dead. We are going to stop mamas, busy working mamas.
Nikki:And when I say working mamas, number one, I mean, W E R K I N mamas. And number two, I mean, any mama, whether you work in an office, whether you work at your own office, running your own business, whether you work at home, all the mamas, mom guilt is dead. We are going to stop beating ourselves up for work stuff. It'll be there tomorrow. Keep calm, keep it moving.
Nikki:Stop beating ourselves up about stuff when it comes to our kids. Our kids typically don't feel the way that we feel. Like if we feel like, oh my God, I feel like such a horrible mom. Our kids, for the most part, are not walking around saying my mom is a horrible mom. If anything, there have been moments I have had where I have felt so low as a mama.
Nikki:And here come my kids, Hey mommy, come in to give me a hug. I was just coming to give you a hug. Or you're the best mom ever. And these are organic moments, not the moments where I bought them something that they wanted, or they even got their way with something. These are organic moments.
Nikki:And just to have that and to feel that from the people who matter the most to us means everything. And I know that y'all can relate. I've had so many nights when the day is done, where I sat back, felt bad about things I didn't get around to doing. I'm soaking in that same energy, probably over a glass or three of wine. And I would carry that with me to bed.
Nikki:And then I would wake up with it, trying to start a new day, trying to focus on the present, but then worried about, I didn't get it done yesterday. What if I can't get it done today? What happens? But over time, I've learned to shift my thinking. So what if I can get it done today?
Nikki:And even taking that a step further, I am going to get it done today and I'm gonna kill shit when I get it done. So it's gonna be top notch next level, everything that I want it to be as far as setting these expectations of excellence for myself at work, at home, or whatever. And so I challenge you all mamas to focus less on what you didn't do and focus more on the things that you did do, the things that you managed to accomplish and celebrate those wins, no matter how big they are, no matter how small they are. Even if it's getting the kids out the door to school on time, for those of us whose kids are back in physical school. If it's something as simple as fixing dinner, not ordering out, loading the dishwasher, getting a work project done on time, whatever those things are on your to do list that are the most important.
Nikki:Focus on celebrating you, celebrating your efforts and the time, energy, and effort that we expend every single day for so many other people outside of ourselves, our kids, our spouses and partners, our bosses, our community. I know I am on the board of a couple of organizations and we had a couple calls this week to talk about things. And so whatever it is that you want to do that you manage to do, get that twenty minute workout in, thirty minutes, an hour, take a walk, drink some more water, get some more sleep, have some more sex, take a bath, take a hot shower, whatever it is that is your thing. A thing on my list right now is number one, I've been wanting to get a massage again. I'm halfway vaccinated and oh my God, y'all, this vaccine put me on my ass for like four or five days when I got my first dose.
Nikki:I felt so lethargic, so out of it. I was on a work call and I had to ping everybody or put a note in the chat like, hey guys, I gotta log off. Like, I couldn't even stay focused in the meeting, which is so unlike me. So I can't wait to I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'm actually looking forward to getting my second shot in a couple weeks, about a week and a half. But anyway, total tangent.
Nikki:New listeners, tangents are the norm over here. We could get deep into a conversation about something and I'll just go to the left or to the right on something else. But reeling it back in, one of the things I've been wanting to do is get a massage. And honestly, the reason why I haven't gotten a massage yet is because I was focused on booking my massages with a black owned massage therapist or spa. And I've been playing phone tag with the team over there.
Nikki:And so for those of us who are business owners, black business owners, black and brown business owners, those of us who work with and support black business owners, I said, I am not, at first I was like, okay, why is it taking so long for them to respond? But again, I know what it's like being a black business owner, being a solopreneur in many cases. And I said, I'm gonna give these black and brown people the support. I'm gonna continue to support them. And, Oh, that's pretty.
Nikki:Again, another tangent. I bought a bath bomb, a hemp bath bomb for the Safel Chakra today. And it's in this really pretty box. And I actually didn't open the box up until now. It's really, really pretty.
Nikki:But anyway, I wanted to have some patience with them, give them grace, the same grace I'm giving myself to allow them to get things together and whatever, because I really wanna support them. They were actually recommended by my chiropractor, who is also black owned establishment. But working on getting that done. Another thing for newbies, I'm not going to go back and edit out that cough. It's just not me.
Nikki:I'm a person who lives an unedited life. And I'm more interested in saying what I have to say, as opposed to going back and taking things out and trying to edit and trying to make it sound perfect. I'm not perfect and my life is not edited and this is my podcast. So what I do for the cough is I drink some green juice. All right.
Nikki:But another thing I wanna do is get a pedicure. I usually do my own. I learned how to do my mandies and patties when I was 14. I was a teenager, my mama and my auntie would buy me all the nail stuff, all the nail polishes, and I just learned how to do it myself. But there's nothing like going to get that full spa pedicure experience with the salts and the calf massages with the bamboo stick.
Nikki:So I'm trying to book that too. But the good thing is the massage, the spa where I was gonna get the massage, they also do manis and pedis. So I was working to 100% support the black business and get my massage and my pedicure from them. So I'm just trying to make contact with them at this point and connect on a day and a time that works for both of us. But I say all of that to say to whatever your thing is, like my thing is a massage in the medi pedi.
Nikki:Whatever your thing is that you wanna do, that you desire to do, but you feel like you don't have the time or the bandwidth to do, just do it. Do what makes your heart sing. We are all brought into this world and we all have the God given right to live our lives through our own lens and not walk a path that wasn't laid for us. And as I say that, I'm thinking about another episode that I'm gonna be doing on imposter syndrome so that we can unpack that a little bit more about walking a path and living in a spotlight that wasn't made for us. Because of what you see, because of what you're influenced by, because of what you're inspired by.
Nikki:It's one thing to be inspired by somebody and even be influenced by somebody. But when you go and try to emulate that person, especially when it's outside of who you are, that's how we all end up in the places that we did not wanna be in, right? But more about that on the imposter syndrome episode, which I might do that next weekend, we'll see. But the takeaway from here, mamas, and really anybody who's listening, is focus on doing what makes you happy. We have these moments in our lives, inevitably, inevitably, why can I not say that word?
Nikki:Am I missing a syllable? In evidently, whatever. Y'all know what I'm trying to say. We have these moments. They are going to happen.
Nikki:They're inherent. Forget inevitable, inherent moments. Okay? In our lives where we have to do the things that we don't wanna do, we have to do things we don't like to do, And we have to do things that we're afraid to do, but just do it. Live your life, your whole ass mom life on your terms with no regrets.
Nikki:And there's so much more I could say. The other thing is I try to keep my episodes to thirty minutes. And right now I'm at thirty three minutes because we're busy. We have a lot going on. We got things to do.
Nikki:As much as I appreciate y'all rocking with me and tuning into my episodes, I wanna be respectful of y'all time and make sure that y'all can go off and do whatever it is that you need to do. But speaking of that, you can always listen to the Working Mamas episodes on the go. We are everywhere now because I'm from Cincinnati. So W's are not really our thing, but we everywhere now. We are on Apple Podcasts, we're on Spotify, we're on iHeartRadio, Google Podcasts, Pandora, Amazon Podcasts, and a whole bunch of other platforms that I didn't even know existed, but I appreciate however y'all get this teaching and this learning and these vibes from the Working Mamas podcast.
Nikki:What do you wanna take away from this episode? Listen, mamas, mom guilt is dead. Forget about it. Stop beating yourself up about things that you didn't or couldn't do. And instead celebrate all of the things that you managed to do and all of the people in your life that you have made happy or supported or made something easier for them.
Nikki:Celebrate those things. If you ate a salad instead of some French fries, if you got your Project That Work done early, if you landed a new client in your own business, whatever it is, you pushed yourself hard in your workout today, whatever it is, celebrate that because we are done with feeling overwhelmed, feeling like we're running off fumes, but not doing anything and living and not, or surviving and not living. It is time for us to start living. Mamas can live too. Busy working mamas can get out here and get to it too.
Nikki:Whether it's taking a vacation, one of my friends just turned 40 and she shared beautiful Instagram story of, and she did the close friends feature, which I didn't even know was a feature. And then I talked to somebody else on Instagram. I was talking to an attorney that we're gonna start working together on some things. And she sent me a voice message on Instagram. I was like, how cool is this?
Nikki:But what was my point of saying all that? Oh, live, live, do you, and live your life on your terms. It is such a beautiful thing and such a beautiful and satisfying space to be in. Like with my podcast, I don't edit my podcast. I know people who record episodes and it takes them a couple of days to turn it around because they send in the episode to another team who, yeah, they'll fix it and edit it and make it sound good, but maybe one day I will.
Nikki:Maybe one day I won't. But right now, this is what works for me And this is what I like to do. So there is no rule that says you have to edit your podcast before you put it out. There's no law that says you can't record a podcast on the go. There was a standard that was set several years ago in the podcasting space and everybody who created a podcast followed this same blueprint.
Nikki:There's nothing wrong with that. I listened to a girl's podcast who actually works somewhere. I don't know if she still works there, but at the time that she was working somewhere, I was a consultant for her employer and I stumbled on her podcast. And her podcast is her talking. She has no intro, none of this, but she has good content, great content.
Nikki:And it's just one of those things, like I don't, aesthetics are not always the priority. And one of my friends actually from school, that's her social media name. Her name is SkipTheFormalities. And I find myself saying that so many times when I'm having consultations with clients, when I'm talking to somebody about a partnership or anything. It's like, just let's skip the formalities.
Nikki:I know enough about you and you know enough about me. Otherwise you wouldn't have even booked this call with me. So live, forget the fluff, fuck the fluff. I try not to cuss my podcast, but sometimes it's warranted, but live, live your life. Do you, live it on your own terms and be happy with that.
Nikki:And if you're not happy with your life right now or the person that you are or the circumstances that you're in, you have the power to change those things. So, okay, I'm done. I'm at thirty eight, I'm past thirty eight. And before I hop on another tangent, let me wrap up this episode. So thank y'all for tuning in.
Nikki:Definitely appreciate y'all rocking with me. Come back in a couple of weeks for the imposter syndrome episode that we definitely need to talk about. And I think I'm gonna start doing some podcast episodes and inviting some guests because interestingly, I have had a lot of people in my DMs on Instagram, couple of messages, excuse me, on LinkedIn, where people are like, Hey, I would love to be featured on your episode. Like people are asking me, can they be featured on my podcast? And that is the most humbling thing for me because I never put out, what is it called?
Nikki:I never put out a PSA. Like, hey, I'm looking for guests to talk about this, this and this, but for people to reach out to me like, hey, I wanna be on your podcast. I listened to this episode about moms and you're just so real and so genuine and I can relate to what you're saying or people saying, Hey, I know you're a CPA. I wanna offer some financial services and the retirement and estate planning and planning for college and retirement. So I love it, I appreciate it.
Nikki:That's why I do this. Whether there's an audience of one or an audience of 1,000,000,000, I am going to be here sharing experiences, expertise, sharing knowledge and tips and everything that y'all ask me for, if that is what makes life better and easier for you. So, okay, for real, I'm done. If you're listening to this episode, you loved it or any other episode, feel free to tag me on social media, my LinkedIn, my LinkedIn. My Instagram is nickwinstoncpa, N I K K W I N S T O N C P A.
Nikki:You can also tag working mamas, working mamas, W E R K I N M O M M A S. And you could also use it as a hashtag, working mamas, W E R K I N M O M M A S. Would love to hear your thoughts about this episode. Feel free to subscribe so you know when that imposter syndrome episode is coming out and leave a review. Reviews are the things that helps people like me get our podcasts where they need to be in the rankings, in the engagement with these big platforms.
Nikki:So I appreciate the love. I appreciate y'all rocking with me. Dance class is about to let out. So let me save this episode so I can publish it when I get home and I will talk to y'all soon. Y'all be good.
